Anyone Know Why a Man might not want to take a shower or bath?

Hi, I had a ex that flat hated to take a shower or bath. He was also the laziest man I every seen. He lived on the computor and never worked or cleaned house or even himself. He was very nice and loving, but to be honest I didnt like to have sexual relationship with him because he never wanted to shower or bath. I at first thought he was worried about the water bill, but later found out his water was free part of the rent payment. He also got upset I didnt want to have oral sex or any sex with him, but who would if they didnt take but one bath or shower a week? Was I wrong in not wanting to have sex with him?Anyone Know Why a Man might not want to take a shower or bath?
No you were not wrong It all goes back to him being lazy,and just plain nasty and disgusting.I hope you were the one who ended the relationship.Anyone Know Why a Man might not want to take a shower or bath?
He was just a dirty BUM.


My ex =wife was the same way .


Maybe we should introduce them ?
not at all. that's gross. you would think he would want to be clean before he engages in sex
Unfortunately not everyone is blessed with the desire for good personal hygeine. What we may consider important, the next person could really care less about. My parents were brought up during ';the depression'; and bathing water wasn't to be taken for granted. I was afforded one bath a week as a child. My Dad continued that tradition throughout his life, but when I hit my teenage years, much to my parents dislike, I started showering everyday.
if anything..I take too many baths...are 2 daily showers excessive?
Hahahaha I knew there was someone else like that out there. My ex was/is like that too. He bathes every couple days, but I totally know what you mean.





It's so gross.





You are so not in the wrong. Trust me.
my ex husband was like that. he would go weeks without a shower and it was soooo gross. i could not even sleep in the same bed as him cause it was so dirty from him. the way i could get him to shower is if i got in there and invited him in, and acted as though washing his hair and body was part of foreplay. tell him you love to taste him right out of the shower and maybe he will start taking them more often
not at all!! i wouldnt either if my bf or husband didnt take a shower.
no you were'nt wrong bad hygene is nasty its understandable if ya go a day or 2 with out a shower if ya got nowhere to go but 1,2 weeks at a time is kinda freaky and gross I know some one with a showering problem and sometimes I cant be in the same room as him he pisses me off with that theres no reason to be unclean unless you homeless or somthin Im kinda lazy but not lazy enough to not take a shower I like smellin good
I think this is brilliant,I have a roomate and hes the same way and its amazing to me....he doesnt smell himself.I feel sorry for any woman he may date because they dont know what their in for,and he is also lazy in other areas of his life a real procrastinator?